When I met my partner, I was sitting in a mall waiting and decided to get up and start walking around a little bit. I was looking up the mall and saw this woman coming toward me in a yellow sweater looking right at me, then smiling. I thought I wonder why she's looking at me? Eventually it dawned on me Hey, it must be her. No matter how good a photo is, it doesn't initially look the same, as a living, breathing, moving person.